My therapist recently referenced an article talking about a woman who had been the sole survivor of a plane crash that went down into a remote Vietnamese jungle. Without all the gory details, the article narrated how she survived and how she moved onwards from her experience and towards the ups and downs of daily […]
Understanding pre-trial therapy
In 2022, the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) published new guidance for prosecutors and police on pre-trial therapy. This guidance replaces earlier 2002 guidance and aims to affirm the purpose of pre-trial therapy, the victim’s right to therapy, and how therapy notes are used in court or during an investigation. As a likely consequence of misunderstanding, […]
Freedom or loneliness?
I heard a quote recently that read ”When no one wakes you up in the morning and no one waits for you at night and you can do whatever you want, what do you call that, Freedom or loneliness?” Immediately I thought of freedom; Having the ability to live your life however you wish with […]
Is ANYBODY LISTENING?
What makes a ‘good survivor’, or a perfect victim for seeking justice? Is it our physical appearance? Our emotional reactions? Is it based on how much we fought back? whether we accepted drugs, alcohol, or other items from the perpetrator? If you’re familiar with the concept of victim-blaming then the thought of these being factors […]
20 Life Lessons On Living Through a Pandemic After surviving CSE.
Back in February, Zoe and Elicia were excited to introduce four new members of the REIGN Collective. Everyone had been trained up, presenter bios had been added to our website, dates were set for delivering our first workshops together, and then every single booking was cancelled.